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牵手,分手



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牵手,分手。
 
你发觉到了吗?                                                          
爱的感觉,总是在一开始觉得很甜蜜,                                       
总觉得多一个人陪、多一个人帮你分担,                                     
你终於不再孤单了,至少有一个人想著你、                                   
恋著你,不论做什么事情,                                                 
只要能一起,就是好的,                                                   
但是慢慢的,随著彼此的认识愈深,                                         
你开始发现了对方的缺点,                                                 
於是问题一个接著一个发生,                                               
你开始烦、累,甚至想要逃避,                                             
有人说爱情就像在捡石头,                                                 
总想捡到一个适合自己的,                                                 
但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢?                                     
                                                                               
她适合你,那你又适合她吗?                                                
其实,爱情就像磨石子一样,                                               
或许刚捡到的时候,你不是那么的满意,                                     
但是记住人是有弹性的,                                                   
很多事情是可以改变的,          
只要你有心、有勇气,                                                     
与其到处去捡未知的石头,                                                 
还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨,你开始磨了吗?                   
很多人以为是因为感情淡了,                                               
所以人才会变得懒惰。                                                     
错!                                                                     
其实是人先被惰性征服,                                                   
所以感情才会变淡的。                                                     
                                                                               
在某个聚餐的场合,                                                       
有人提议多吃点虾子对身体好,                                             
这时候有个中年男人忽然说「十年前,当我老婆还是我的女朋友的时候,         
她说要吃十只虾,我就剥二十只给她!                                       
现在,如果她要我帮她剥虾壳,开玩笑!我连帮她脱衣服都没兴趣了,还剥虾壳咧! 
听到了吗?明白了吗?                                                     

难怪越来越多人只想要谈一辈子的恋爱,                                     
却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。                                                     
因为,婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。                                             
如果每个人都                                                             
懒得讲话、              
懒得倾听、                                                               
懒得制造惊喜、                                                           
懒得温柔体贴,                                                           
那么夫妻或是情人之间,                                                   
又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢?                                             
所以请记住:                                                             
有活力的爱情,                                                           
是需要适度殷勤灌溉的,                                                   
谈恋爱,更是不可以偷懒的喔!                                             
                                                                               
有一对情侣,相约下班後去用餐、逛街,                                     
可是女孩因为公司会议而延误了,                                           
当她冒著雨赶到的时候已经迟到了30多分钟,                                 
他的男朋友很不高兴的说:                                                 
「你每次都这样,现在我甚么心情也没了,                                   
我以後再也不会等你了!                                                   
刹那间,女孩终於决堤崩溃了,                                             
她心里在想:或许,他们再也没有未来了                                     
                                                                               
同样的在同一个地点,另一对情侣也面临同样的处境;                         
女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头,                                         
他的男朋友说:「我想你一定忙坏了吧!」
接著他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水,并且脱去外套盖在女孩身上,                   
此刻,女孩流泪了 
但是流过她脸颊的泪却是温馨的。                                           
你体会到了吗?                                                        

其实爱、恨往往只是在我们的一念之间!                                     
爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时,                                               
很多事可能只是在於你心境的转变罢了!                                     
懂了吗?                                                                 
当有个人爱上你,而你也觉得他不错。                                       
那并不代表你会选择他。                                                   
                                                                               
我们总说:「我要找一个你很爱很爱的人,你才会谈恋爱。」                   
但是当对方问你,怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候,                               
你却无法回答他,因为你自己也不知道。                                     
                                                                               
没错,我们总是以为,我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。                     
可是後来,当我们猛然回首,我们才会发觉自己曾经多么天真。                 
假如从来没有开始,你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢?                 
其实,很爱很爱的感觉,是要在一起经历了许多事情之後才会发现的。                                                                   
或许每个人都希望能够找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣,       
但是你有没有想过『在你身边会不会早已经有人默默对你付出很久了,只是你没发觉而已呢?』                                                             
所以,还是仔细看看身边的人吧!他或许已经等你很久喽!                     
                                                                               
当你爱一个人的时候,爱到八分绝对刚刚好。                                 
所有的期待和希望都只有七八分;剩下两三分用来爱自己。                     
如果你还继续爱得更多,很可能会给对方沉重的压力,让彼此喘不过气来,       
完全丧失了爱情的乐趣。                                                   
                                                                               
所以请记住,                                                             
喝酒不要超过六分醉,                                                     
吃饭不要超过七分饱,                                                     
爱一个人不要超过八分                                                     
                                                                               
如果你也正在为爱迷惘,或许下面这段话可以给你一些启示:                   
爱一个人,
要了解,也要开解                                             
要道歉,也要道谢                                                      
要认错,也要改错                                                      
要体贴,也要体谅                                                       
是接受,而不是忍受                                                     
是宽容,而不是纵容                                                     
是支持,而不是支配              
是慰问,而不是质问                                                     
是倾诉,而不是控诉                                                     
是难忘,而不是遗忘                                                     
是彼此交流,而不是凡事交代                                             
是为对方默默祈求,                                                       
而不是向对方诸多要求                                                   
可以浪漫,但不要浪费                                                  
                                                                               
可以随时牵手,                                                           
但不要随便分手
 

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作者:佚名